SoMa • Friday, September 25 • 9PM–Late
Before the leather. Before the streets. Before the weekend gets WILD… come get spooned. 💋
Kick off Folsom Weekend with SayLove—a softer, slower, sexier way to ease into one of San Francisco’s most iconic weekends of pleasure, possibility, kink, and connection.
Flirt. Cuddle. Draw. Play. Watch. Or do absolutely nothing. 😈
SayLove is your permission to tune IN.
Bring a date, your lover, your chosen family—or come solo and make a new connection.
🖤 Leather welcome
💋 Kink celebrated
🩲 Clothing optional
🧸 Pajamas still encouraged ;]
All bodies. All genders. All levels of experience and curiosity.
📍 SoMa, San Francisco
Exact address shared with ticket holders.
🎶 Ambient, sensual soundscape
🎬 Cuddle Cinema — silent sensual queer films
🛏️ Cozy beds + soft cuddle zones
🤗 Cuddle-only chill areas
💋 Consent-forward play spaces
✍🏾 Drawn 2gether — nude figure drawing + live models
💆🏽 Massage + bodywork offerings
📖 Queer Bedtime Stories
🧠 How to Be Good at Sex With Me — workshop with Nines
✨ Space to explore, connect, watch, participate—or simply BE
A tongue-in-cheek exploration of communication, consent, intimacy, and pleasure. 🍒
Join Nines for an intimate, participatory workshop designed to sharpen your communication skills, explore connection, meet new people, and ease more intentionally into the night.
Perfect for introverts, slow burners, newbies, and the experienced.
This consent-forward workshop welcomes all bodies and includes opportunities for conversation, reflection, connection, and touch. Participation is always an invitation, never an obligation.
Facilitated by Nines — therapeutic sex worker, ritualist & educator. 🕊️
☀️ Want to go deeper? Join Nines the following day, Saturday, September 26, for a three-hour deep dive into the material.
🫖 Tea service + sweet treats
🧋 Non-alcoholic drinks available
🍾 BYOB — no alcohol sold onsite
🧺 Clothes check
🧠 8 PM — How to Be Good at Sex With Me
Workshop with Nines
🚪 9:00 PM — Doors Open
✍🏾 9:30–10:30 PM — Drawn 2gether
Nude figure drawing with live models + live cello accompaniment
📖 11:00 AM — Queer Bedtime Stories
🌙 Late — Cuddle Cinema + Open Flow
Move at your own pace. Drift between spaces. Follow your curiosity.
🎫 Pre-sale highly encouraged
🚪 Limited door tickets, if available
⏰ No ins & outs
💸 Refunds available up to 24 hours before the event
SayLove is a private, curated, consent-forward space. Entry may be refused when necessary to protect the safety and integrity of the gathering.
We want SayLove to remain accessible to our community.
A limited number of reduced-cost community tickets are available, with priority given to BIPOC lovers.
DM or email us to request one. 💞
Want to experience SayLove from the inside? 💫
SayLove is powered by community. Volunteers help us welcome guests, tend cozy spaces, support programming, and keep the night flowing with care.
Come help us hold the container—and be held in return. 🤍
• ADA bathroom
• SayLove is located four flights above the main floor
• Six stairs at the building entrance before elevator access
• Please reach out ahead of time if you need additional support
SayLove is not a sober event, but we encourage mindful and intentional participation.
Consent is active, ongoing, and can change at any time. Respect a no. Respect a yes becoming a no. Check in with each other.
Please arrive and leave quietly—we love our neighbors too. 💞
Come get cozy before you get filthy. 🖤
💕 SayLove
LOVE what you do. Do what you LOVE.
Besos,
Grace Towers 💋
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